One of the things I’ve learned from Kayleanne is how to be hospitable. She’s got the gift of not only welcoming people into our home as a courtesy, but creating space for people to move from strangers to significant members of our community and at times, part of our actual family.
I’ve learned that hospitality is not a haphazard act of kindness; it is a profound expression of our faith and a vital component of the church's mission. When we weave this practice into the fabric of our lives we see God work in profound ways. When we open our homes and hearts to others, we participate in the Kingdom of God made visible in our midst. Hospitality is kind of a big deal.
So as you order some pizza and invite a few friends over for the game, consider these three tips that lead us closer to extending the grace of Jesus to the lost, lonely, and left out in the ancient art of hospitality.
Remember- Hospitality is not limited to your dining room.
In fact, it extends beyond the table to front porches, waiting rooms, and afternoon walks. It is about creating a sacred, and often simple environment where guests are welcomed, where they sense the presence of Christ's love even if they can’t yet describe it. As a church, we are called to be living sanctuaries, inviting others to experience the presence of God in the spaces we live, work, and play. Our homes can serve as mini-cathedrals to the parishes of our neighborhoods.
Practice listening.
Active listening this is not just a helpful social skill; it is a spiritual practice. When we attentively listen to the stories and hearts of our guests, we embody Christ's ministry of compassion and care. Our open ears can become a channel for God's grace to flow even before we open our mouths to speak good news. (BLESS Rhythms anyone?)
Anticipate needs and joyfully meet them.
When we think ahead and prepare a space with grace and humility we show off something about God. In the act of anticipating the needs of our guests (whether they are friends or people we just met), we mirror God's attentive care for each of us. By serving others in humility, we reflect Christ's example of servanthood (Philippians 2), a profound expression of Kingdom hospitality that speaks of the glory of God in simple and meaningful ways. Think through who is coming over and what is one thing that would add a meaningful touch to the experience they are about to have with you. Whether it’s a single malt, single origin, or single topping pizza, seek out ways to bless those you are showing hospitality towards!
We think that if we embrace one or even all three simple adjustments in our practice of hospitality, our Missio Communities will not only offer proximity and a space of belonging but share the love of Christ with our neighbors and networks of friends. We will be actively fostering the kind of environment where all feel loved, valued, and welcomed to the table. Through our consistent and faithful practice of hospitality, we can become instruments of God's grace and extend the Kingdom of God's love to all who enter our midst.
Like I said, hospitality is kind of a big deal…. and you thought you were just ordering pizza for some friends to watch the game.